ABDL Events in the United States - 2025 Edition
United States ABDL Events & Conventions
If you're based in the United States, now’s your chance to explore some of the most popular ABDL events and gatherings happening across the country. From cozy meetups to full-blown conventions, these experiences are made for kiddos like you.
Below is a curated list of some of our favorite events. There are always more events out there, (especially diapered camping events), however we wanted to list events we have attended ourselves and would attend again!
1. BabyFurCon – San Jose, CA ✨
📅 September 11–15, 2025
A cozy, adorable convention especially for babyfurs and diapered furries, BabyFurCon blends the soft fuzziness of the furry fandom with the nurturing, playful vibes of the ABDL community. Originally in Santa Cruz, it now calls San Jose home and features panels, crafting, storytelling, playrooms, and more.
2. CAPCon – Chicago, IL (2025: Minneapolis Minnesota) ✨
📅 March 2025
The Chicago Age Players Convention is the largest ABDL and ageplay convention in the world. From massive play spaces and themed parties to workshops and vendors, CAPCon is a welcoming, high-energy experience with a strong support network and lots of friends in diapers, onesies, and footed pajamas.
3. Diapers After Dark – Boston, MA ✨
📅 July 12 & October 11, 2025
A social ABDL event at The Alley Bar in Boston, this local meetup welcomes diaper lovers and littles alike in a judgment-free, adult-only space. It’s relaxed, low-key, and built for friendships.
4. NYC ABDL Meetup – New York, NY ✨
📍 Various Dates
The Big Apple has a Growing ABDL Social Scene with recurring meetups, playdates, and holiday parties. These are often hosted through local organizers or groups found on FetLife and their own website linked below:
5. Diaper Active – North Hollywood, CA ✨
📍 Various Dates
Held at the Bullet Bar, this ABDL-friendly night is geared toward the diaper lover and leather crowd. Expect a chill vibe, padded folks, and sometimes even drink specials for those wearing!
⭐ Diaper Active Facebook Events
6. Crinkly Arcade - San Francisco, CA ✨
📍 Various Dates
An awesome social event in the Arcade Bar, Detour on 2200 Market St from 7-10pm. Diapers must be covered, but its a super social group, and great for ABDLs wanting to meet the SF locals, and connect! This event is generally put on monthly and is hosted by Stevie.
⭐ Past Event: Event Poster
7. DIAPER UP! - Chicago, IL ✨
📍 Various Dates
Diaper Up And Dance! This is a brand new quarterly event (circa December ‘23) is sponsored by DeltaFrost Prouductions. From their webiste: Celebrate, explore, and make new connections as you dance and crinkle the night away at Chicago's Leather and Fetish Club, Jackhammer.
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🎧 Must-Listen ABDL Podcasts
We couldn’t share our favorite events without also giving a shoutout to the awesome podcasts that help spread the word! These shows often advertise upcoming ABDL happenings and keep us all in the loop. Below is a list of podcasts we recommend checking out — and if you’re anything like us, you’ll love tuning in while lying in bed (padded, of course) or hitting the gym (still padded while running, obviously 😄).
1. Newsie's Nook ✨
Hosted by the always-adorable Newsie, this podcast dives into the full spectrum of ABDL life — from gear reviews and interviews to kink education and lifestyle tips. A mix of fun, thoughtful, and real-talk.
2. Love In Brief ✨
A heartfelt advice show hosted by RY & Lola, focusing on love — of self, of others, and of community. Perfect for those looking to feel more connected.
3. Diaperpervs ABDL Podcast ✨
Witty, raw, and informative, Diaperperv’s podcast tackles topics ranging from kink shame to roleplay dos and don'ts. Expect real talk and occasional rants.
4. Dream A Little ✨
Lo is an ABDL coach and content creator offering relatable insights into coming out, telling a partner, and navigating kink in relationships.
5. The Usual Bet ✨
Hosted by Sophie & Chloe, this podcast blends laughs with lifestyle as the duo discuss ABDL topics and make bets—where the loser has to wear diapers on the next episode. Fun, cheeky, and lighthearted.
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