Are you wondering where everyone is spending their time on the internet? Ok, so maybe not everyone, but ABDLs (Littles, Middles, Bigs), Babyfurs, Kidfurs, Pups, and the like? We were too, so we decided to ask around and do some searching! Below is some of the information we found! - You're welcome!
Twitter came in as number one in our survey as the topmost useful and efficient method to find and communicate with other ABDLs online. Twitter can give you a feed based on your unique interests. ABDL's can cultivate their following, following the interests and traits that apply to you from vanilla to different. Your likes are center stage based on who you follow, while your feed can shy away from particular dislikes.
Many find Twitter a great way to quickly find ABDL friends and engage in playful ways by sharing photos, roleplay, and entertaining commentary.
2. Telegram Groups
Telegram came in second, as the instant messenger is known for its cute stickers and across platform social groups that can handle a fair amount of members and moderation of those groups. You can also send short video clips, sound clips, and photos over the platform.
Suppose you plan to have an account with an ABDL or Fursona profile photo. In that case, we advise signing up to Telegram with a Google Voice number (Telegram notifies everyone who has your number registered in their contacts that you have joined Telegram). After you create your account, search and join some groups and start plastering cute stickers in chats (ok, maybe not spam, but we enjoy the stickers)!
If you are struggling to find ABDL telegram groups, ask around to your ABDL pals and see what groups they can get you an invite.
3. Discord Channels
Say hello to instant voice chat! Oh, and gaming! We may be biased in preference to voice chat and gaming, but what more could you ask for in a social client!
Discord came in as our number 3 top-ranked choice based on our survey for socializing with ABDLs online. Discord client focuses on quality conversations as with voice chat; you can hear emotional voice inflections rather than deciphering the text. Laugh with friends well into the evening about silly things. Discord has also added screen sharing for those who readily want to share their gaming experience with those in the discord server.
If you haven't found a discord ABDL group, we highly recommend it!
Photos, live streams, photos, and more live streams. Oh, and more photos! Instagram came in at number 4 in our survey. Instagram has a relatively large ABDL user base, and by using ABDL related tags, many will find your posts!
We recommend using a few of the following tags to get started:
#Ageplay #Cute #ABDLClothing #ABDLcommunity #LittleSpace #Infantilism #Diapers #AgeplayLifestyle #Ageplayer #AdultDiaper #AdultBabies #CGL #AdultBaby #DiaperLover #ABDL #ABDLCouple #ABDLLifestyle #ABDLLife #AgeplayKink #AdultBabyBoy #AdultBabyGirl #DiaperKink #GayABDL #StraightABDL #QueerABDL #TransABDL #BabyFur #BabyPup #AdultBabyDiaperLover #ABDLTrans #ABDLGenderQueer #ABDLDiaperGirl #LegalLittlesLeague #AdultPaci
One thing to note about the Instagram community is that it is disproportionately female ABDLs, which is exciting to share. Most female and trans-ABDL's seem to socialize and gather a following and friends on Instagram.
Go share some photos! And don't forget to use hashtags to help others find you!
5. Reddit (ABDL Related Sub)
Reddit is the ultimate place to lurk and engage with the ABDL community through a variety of subreddits. The primary Reddit is /ABDL. You can find subreddits dedicated to roleplay, diaper pics, diaper personal ads, and so much more.
We recommend checking out the managed directory on the primary /ABDL subreddit. There is a utopia of useful information, such as other ABDL subreddits, and a listing of resources such as an ABDL retailers list, including ABDL businesses worldwide.
If you have never used Reddit, we recommend making an account, uploading a fun avatar, and start upvoting other posts that spark your interest. Make sure to follow the rules of the subreddits and avoid cross-posting (where you post the same content to multiple subreddits)
Other Places Mentioned In Survey
- Private Facebook Groups
- Facebook Messenger
- Kik Groups
- Private Snapchat Groups
We also asked, "If a new ABDL wanted to meet new ABDL"s online and make quality connections, what would you tell them?" Below are some paraphrased answers from the survey:
- "Twitter is where you find people. Telegram is where you can get to know them."
- "I'm from Mexico, and Instagram is really nice and respectful. I've made a couple of fwends there."
- "Depending on what they're looking for, it's a tie between Twitter and Telegram groups. Twitter is the best option for wanting to find other ABDLs online and try to make a genuine connection with by sharing as well as expressing yourself to your followers. Telegram should also be recommended for being able to join groups of your particular interests and being able to chat with other people very easily who are also in said group."
- "Definitely Instagram, though, if they are trying to meet people local to them, I would recommend Fetlife. There's much more smol community conversations going on at a local level there, so that might not be a bad place to start. Instagram and Instagram live streams are absolutely wonderful places to hang out and meet new people, engage with the community, and get to know people either 1on1 or in a group."
- "Fetlife for their local community, Instagram for worldwide connections."
- "I believe that telegram is a great place to meet ABDLs, nowadays people can just type in ABDL telegram chat and they get redirected to the chat. Very easy ^.^"
- "Depends on what they're going for. If they're just trying to make casual friends and talk about ABDL related topics then definitely Twitter, but for more kinkier side of things I'd say Fetlife or some other hub that revolves around that. Twitter is by far the best cause you can follow certain accounts easier to better suit your ideals."
Still want to take the Survey?
Questions we Asked:
- Do you actively socialize on any of the following (excluding pay sites or dating sites)? (Check ALL that apply) *
- Where do you personally spend most of your time socializing with ABDL's? (Long answer) *
- If a new ABDL asked where they could meet new ABDL's online and make quality connections, what would you tell them? (long answer) *
NOTE: Survey should take no more than 1-5 minutes